How did you spend your summer?

Updated: Jun 24, 2018

Summer breaks are the best time to have surgery for kids with complex medical needs, and Peter is no exception. He had surgery for a Cochlear implant during his Summer break of 2016. This was between his freshman and sophomore years of high school.


Born with Microtia/Atresia

Peter, who was born with microtia/atresia (missing his left ear entirely), elected to have surgery for a Cochlear implant called a bone-anchored hearing aid (BAHA). He can hear normally on his right side but is profoundly deaf on his left. This means he is unable to localize sound, hear anyone on his left side, and struggles in loud environments.


The Struggle with Hearing Loss in School

With every grade advancement, Peter struggled more with his hearing loss. Last year, he was especially challenged. He was a freshman at a larger, public high school trying to make new friends. I can't imagine his frustration at being unable to hear conversations at lunch or in the hallways. Any loud, crowded gathering was impossible for him to enjoy and left him isolated and exhausted.


Headband vs Surgery

Starting in second grade, Peter had access to the BAHA technology by wearing the device on a headband. Not ideal, but I never wanted him to go through the surgery without testing it. He would never consistently wear the headband at school or use the FM system that was provided with it. It was a constant struggle. When I would ask him if it helped, he would give a non-committal answer. He knew that giving the slightest positive remark might mean having surgery. His response was always, "I don't want to look like Frankenstein with something sticking out of my head." The irony of this statement always made me laugh because he already has obvious craniofacial differences. But, I understood his desire not to invite more opportunities for staring.

Peter wearing the BAHA Softband at age 10

Now, for those of you unfamiliar with this surgery, it is not a huge bolt sticking out of your head! Rather, it's a small snap (like something you would see on Barbi clothes) and barely noticeable. I could've argued about it with him, but I just let it go. I did not want to force this surgery. I was also uncomfortable with possible complications-- skin grafts, infection risks, and daily care requirements. I believed that Cochlear would eventually develop a better and safer way to adhere the sound processor, and, fortunately, they did.




Cochlear's BAHA Attract System's Bluetooth Feature Sold Peter!

Cochlear now offers the BAHA Attract. By placing a magnet on top of the retaining screw (the part implanted into the skull to enable bone conduction), there is no need to have the screw protrude from the head. Thus, no need for a skin graft or daily care of the site. Even better, no Frankenstein bolt!

Dioagram of Cochlear BAHA Attract System

What really sold Peter, however, is that the sound processor is now blue-tooth capable and can be controlled via an app on his iPhone. He was given a trial to use for a couple of weeks and within a few days of using it, he said, "I think I want to have this surgery." That was a courageous statement coming from a kid that will do just about anything to avoid surgery. It was then obvious to me that it was time to move forward with the BAHA. My job as his primary caregiver and advocate was to make it happen. This time, unlike many others, my job was easy.


Finding a Great Surgeon

Dr. Michael Shinners, a neurotologist specializing in neurological disorders of the ear, was perfect for Peter's needs. Dr. Shinners is an excellent surgeon who really listens to and cares for his patients and their families. He worked with me to understand Peter's anxieties and to ensure the best and safest procedure for the surgery. Peter has a complex airway, so anesthesia is always a concern. The team that worked with us at NorthShore's Highland Park Hospital was attentive and professional. We were very happy with Peter's care from pre-op to discharge.

Peter in recovery with his brother, Jacob



Support from Friends Who "Get It"

The night before the surgery, I learned via social media that one of Peter's friends from Children's Craniofacial Association was having the same surgery on the same day. I was so happy they had each other for support. It helped Peter knowing that he was not alone, and they had fun comparing scars and haircuts afterwards. This is one of the many reasons we love our CCA family!


Activation Day & Results

Peter was "activated" with the BAHA sound processor one month after surgery. His eyes lit up and his smile was HUGE when the audiologist turned it on. Thanks to Dr. Shinners and his team, including audiologist Dr. Susan Marek for making this happen. Peter just started his sophomore year and is hearing much better at school, and he is less tired at the end of a busy day. I know it's made a huge difference in Peter's quality of life. He panicked after realizing he forgot to put it on one morning as we drove to school. What a difference from the arguing over wearing it with the headband! Peter practically begged me to bring it to him ASAP and promised he would never forget it again.


Because this surgery was Peter's decision, he is 100% vested in caring for the device, and he wears it without being reminded. Although he would've benefited from having it sooner, making the decision himself was a powerful lesson in self-advocacy. He ultimately has to manage his own healthcare, and this was an opportunity for him to do that.


Watch videos of Peter having fun with his magnetic implant!

Read about Peter's jaw reconstruction & phase 2 of braces

Watch a video about Peter's jaw surgery & recovery



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